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Mortgage or marriage? Create a savings plan for both

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As you and your partner decide to start a life together, you may be faced with a decision – throw a dream wedding to celebrate your love or save for a down payment?

Good news - you might not have to choose. With smart saving and plenty of planning, you can kick off your marriage and homeowning journeys at the same time.

Wedding spending considerations

From venues to outfits, food and decor, the cost of a wedding can add up quickly. But with enough time to plan ahead and save, you’ll be prepared for the expenses that come your way.

Decide your wedding priorities

Is it important to you to have a big wedding? Do you want to book a special venue? Are you a foodie who cares most about your wedding menu? As you plan, keep in mind where you might want to splurge, and where you could cut back. Agree on your priorities with your partner so you can set a corresponding budget and start saving for any big-ticket items.

Set a realistic budget

Establishing a wedding budget is essential to avoid overspending. Based on your priorities, come up with a realistic estimate of all expenses. With a budget set in advance, you can start saving for your wedding costs. Ally Bank’s Savings Account buckets allow you to allocate funds for the big event or specific splurge-worthy priorities, so you can keep track of your progress toward your goals.

Think about how much you’ve budgeted and your timeframe — this will help you figure out how much you’ll need to save each month. Ally Bank’s smart savings tools can help you reach your savings goals faster. Try our calculator to map out your timeline.

Read more: Prepare for life's big moments with Ally Bank Spending and Savings Account buckets

Explore cost-saving strategies

Ready to get creative? Consider cost-saving strategies like DIYing some of your decor, picking a non-traditional dessert or serving a signature cocktail with wine and beer instead of a full open bar. Finding ways to lower your wedding spending could help you save more for your future home.

Set up multiple savings buckets to work toward your wedding and down payment at the same time.

Planning to save for a house

Saving for a home at the same time as your wedding isn’t impossible. It just takes some careful planning. Start with these strategies.

Decide your home must-haves

Just as you set your wedding priorities, start your homebuying journey by hashing out must-haves with your partner. Think location, size or amenities. By picking your essentials, you make the search easier, and it can help you and your partner figure out where you might be able to compromise.

Set a realistic budget and start saving for a down payment

Like with your wedding, use these priorities to determine your homebuying budget. It’s important to take into account your current financial situation, including income, expenses and any current debts. Not only will these factors help determine your budget, but they can also affect your interest rate and loan terms.

Combining wedding and homebuying goals

With savings buckets in an Ally Bank Savings Account, you can track your progress by setting up multiple buckets to work toward your wedding and down payment at the same time. To calculate how much to contribute to each bucket, consider your savings timeline. Say you want a wedding in two years and a new home in three. If you plan to set aside $800 in savings a month, you can distribute $500 in your wedding bucket and $300 to your down payment.

“I do” meets “I’m a homeowner”

By setting timelines, determining budgets and using tools that help you plan ahead and stay on track, you can save for multiple goals at once. By balancing both, you don’t have to choose between a mortgage or marriage — you can walk down the aisle and into a home of your own.

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